I've used Macs since OSX was first introduced. Loved every one of 'em. The only software that ever made any of them crash was Microsoft Office.
If they don't work for you, then just switch to something that does. Not buying Apple products is the single best way to complain.
Rants like this one, that seem to focus on the Apple philosophy as much as their products, are pointless. Apple is a company; it makes things for the sake of making money. That's all it is. It's pointless to try to attribute to a company some kind of moral position only to then argue the company hasn't met your standard for corporate morality. It's not even good rhetoric.